overheard some when going on a 1st date . is it too presumptious to carry a condom with you? this is a question to both women and men. it would seem to suggest youre expecting a certain amount of sexual contact. but on the other hand if you do encounter such contact and neither of you has a condom then it p'resents you with a dilemma. risk it ? or wait ? so yeah or neah to the condom ?