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neti it was a shocl to us all that he turned so violent as he seemed a decent hard working blokem he has his own sucessful business and isn;t a loser or anything, it was apparently a very strong emotional thing that he gtot out of control, he has since apologised profusely and been very honest with the police, despite me and daughters mates saying she should not take him back, i think my daughter had forgiven him his stupidity and she says he is devastated that he looked such a bully and moron. I am worried now, she is probably wrong, but she is a grown up, he has sorted the doot out and a new one is being fitted today. we can't live their lives for them but the CSI woman that came yesterday morning did tell my daughter she had seen incidents like this escalate into domestic violence, daughter had not agreed to talk to him at that point and did agree with the CSI. I am hoping it was a one off. we will see.