bye bye baby

[oldgrape]

my ex has actually decided to have our son 4 the weekend i dropped him off an hour ago and picking him up sunday afternoon.

i miss him already

any ideas as to what to do with myself all weekend my friends are all busy what can a single girl do or go without looking like a sad lonely loser?

[dot.hawkes]

spend a fiver of your �30 on the lottery and then go to Primark and spend �15 on a new outfit then go to bargain booze and spend �5 on some voddy and pepsi, then save �5 for treats to munch whilst watching the lottery draw

[Lucy Thomas]

Your best bet would be a large vibrator and an industrial sized box of AA batteries.

[Ice.Maiden]

After what OG's been through, I doubt she'll find any mirth in that, Lucy T!

[Louisa 69]

Well said Ice :))

Oldgrape when i have some time alone i love settling down with a good book and a glass of wine. Hope your ok x x

[Ice.Maiden]

Hi Louisa! How are you, hun? I've had a cr@p day. Feel terrible, but if I go to bed and lie down.......way to go!!!

[Lucy Thomas]

What do you mean 'after what OG's been through'. She's getting the kid back on Sunday. About 48 hours. I won't elaborate but many of us go through FAR worse things.

[Miss Random]

Lucy they say ignorance is bliss...... however, here I'm prepared to make an exception.
May pay you to check back some of oldgrape's threads.
She has been to hell and back, and most people on this site hold her in very high esteme......

Banter with the trolls, but leave oldgrape alone!

[Ice.Maiden]

Do you know what happened to OG. Lucy? Does it help her plight if everyone else on here's been through the same thing? I don't think your attempt at a joke was welcome, under the circumstances.

[Lucy Thomas]

I haven't read OG's old threads but I will assume that she hasn't lost a child at an early age. My son was six when he was hit by a car. He died instantly. He would be twenty now if he was still here. Only someone who has lost a child can know the feeling. You actually ache for them to be back with you. Fourteen years has not eased the pain one jot. If I could change places with him to give him life I would. So excuse me if I am less than sympathetic with a woman whose child is away from her for two days presumably safe in the hands of his father.

[Ice.Maiden]

I'm not going to talk other people's business on here, but OG's problem isn't as dire as the one you've been through yourself. I'm sorry to hear about your son, and can only imagine what it must've like for you. I have two of my own, who mean more to me than anything. However - I've noticed that you're fairly acid-tongued. There's no need to be, and I still think that a joke about vibrators was inappropriate - especially from someone who obviously professes to be of a superior nature.

[Miss Random]

Lucy I am sorry for what you have been through, it must have been the most awful thing in the world.

Please accept others here have had similar dreadful things happen to them.
In oldgrape's case, the issue isn't not being with her children for the weekend, but an awful lot of bad stuff happened to her prior to this weekend.

We are very protective of her, but of course, you had no way of knowing this.

Check out some old posts, lots of us rely on other kind souls on here when we need help.

Sorry for what you are suffering,
God Bless
Missy

[Ice.Maiden]

I'll second that, Miss R. There's always someone with a worse problem than our own, but when something bad happens, it never feels that way, does it?

[Beads]

Hello oldgrape
It's nice to see you on here. :) If you join the library as a previous user said you are able to get out books/dvds/cds etc...so even if you're not a reader there may be other things that are of interest.

A nice long bath with a good read always makes me feel so relaxed. Or a bath with some candles, it's really nice...