do you ever look ahead in your life and do you have a plan of what you want to do and where you want to be? have you done this in the past? and has it worked out according to plan or totally the opposite? when i look back i havent really planned anything and just sort of let it happen . but now i see myself sitting down after the end of the year and trying to plan the nextx 3 or 4 yaers of my life out . just to see what i think i want from it . anyone else planning on doing this??