Girls why can you be so NASTY!!!!

[nellypope]

I just had a really C%*p day at work! purely because girls can be So bitchy.....why? Why are some girls like this. I've nhad loads of different jobs, Art Editor, Publishing co, Photo Lab ass, Receptionist and Cleaner. It makes no difference what the job is, some girl at some time has attempted to make my life HELL.

I try to pre-empt any problems, by being very friendly, using non-ambiguous terminology. But there will always be one and I know I'm not alone, I know that all you other girls out there have probably had the same kind of experience.

So what is there some Bitch Grad school somewhere.

I also just went to check a previous post on Food & Drink (regarding what wines I would like) and some girl made a rather bitchy comment about using an apostrophe!!! (Ok I tried to give her some back)

But I ask you why girls why? and who else has experienced evil females?

[cazzz1975]

Their attitude is their problem nelly, Girls are very insecure and competative, If they feel threatened then out come the claws.

You just have to let it blow past you, they will grow up eventually..

[whiffey]

If you are referring to Lucy Thomas, it's a bloke, Scottish too, ever unthankful for the trains we ran up there.

[SKA]

I not an evil female I'm a very nice female!!! There are some insecure females around who hide it by being bitchy � that�s my conclusion

[banjobabe]

Hey Nellypope,

Sorry you've had such a bad experience. I have to say (personally) that I am naturally a bitch - not sure if it's in the genes but I do like a good ol' bitch it makes me feel better.

Maybe it's a bit sad lol

Not that this answer is much help to you at all!

P'raps you just work with a LOT of bitches and it's all getting too much

BB xx

[daffy654]

Just be bitchy back at them but make a better job of it.

[cazzz1975]

Lucy has a fine red beard and thighs as wide as trees

[tiggerblue10]

I have experienced evil men too nelly. Especially the one who has made my life hell at work since last Xmas.

[smudge]

Just take a deep breath & ignore them nelly - they're really not worth worrying about!

People who are rude &/or nasty, are usually insecure themselves - just like some bullies.

Make yourself a nice cuppa tea & try to enjoy the rest of the day. -x-

[cazzz1975]

same diff really tigger, as long as you remember its their shortcomings that make them nasty you shouldnt let it get to you

[smudge]

BTW - my post was referring to females & males.

[nellypope]

Thanks ppl, feeling better already, Tigger, you are right about the blokes (my BF he's a big guy, good looking) he's had experiences with extremely bitchy Male colleagues, so I guess girls are not alone.

BanjoBabe, in my experience self-confessed "bitches" are usually "good sorts" ;-) I do know that given certain circumstances (and I really have to be pushed ov er the edge) then I too have been pretty bitchy. But I tend to make doubly sure that I am being persecuted and Not being over-sensitive etc.

So does Lucy toss the caber????

[whiffey]

I'll ask him later, I have my hand up a completely different puppets skirt at the moment. I'm fumbling for apostrophe's

[Lucy Thomas]

Nelly, ignore Cazzz, it's Legend in one of his many guises.

I'm a woman and I'm Welsh so they're wrong on two scores.

I think you need to stick up for yourself a bit more and don't show that they're getting to you.

[banjobabe]

Awwww

Thanks Nelly, I have to say there are times in this office that we spend the whole day havin a good ol' bitch but I guess it's fairly lighthearted, as long as somebody doesn't completely overstep the mark lol

Mostly we just have a laff over what's happenin on here.

Deep breath, cuppa char, you'll be feelin much better.

BB xx

[barniclebill]

I blame the radical contraceptives that have been overprescribed since the 60s.

[DONNA1458]

I had the same prob at work with someone until one day enough was enough and i just said to her " i cannot bare to imagine what has happened in your life to make you treat people like you do" that was enough said she cried i felt guilty.