Theland, you're way off-beam, as usual. I don't actually deal in venom, merely fact, reason and logic, ingredients which I know are a mystery to you. Not to worry: your role in life is to preach, not to think, a role you fulfil admirably.
naomi, if you don't like the term "deist" I withdraw it unreservedly and apologise. You seem to believe in some sort of 'being' but one that does not interfere in everyday matters by answering prayers, performing miracles and so on, and that's what I understand a deist to be.
I have to say that since you adhere to some of the trappings of religion (souls, life-after-death and so on) it is hard not to seek some sort of label for you. But I will desist from trying in future.
The word "atheist" (an "-ist" that I am very proud to be) has the saving grace that the prefix "a-" clearly indicates that I reject all aspects of religious belief unreservedly and without exception.
On your second point I simply cannot agree that we must keep an open mind about absurd things, purely because we cannot disprove them. I thought that Russell had put paid to that idea years ago with his famous (and funny) "teapot-in-orbit" analogy.
I believe that the onus is on those who moot weird things - things which make no sense and which break all natural laws - to prove them, or at least to offer some tiny bit of evidence that a rational person can seize and start working on. If they can't then that rational person is perfectly entitled dismiss the idea with a shrug and get on with other things. He has no obligation to clutter up his mind with every daft thing that people invent, purely in the cause of "keeping an open mind".
I still can't remember who it was who said that keeping an open mind can be a good thing, but not so open that your brain falls out.