A sex question ( serious answers only please )

[caveman69]

I have met a man who has a massive effect on me sexually, the biggest I've ever known in my life.
The problem is , I get so excited that even just kissing and hugging makes my breathing go fast and shallow,I go light headed and my mouth goes COMPLETELY dry, no saliva whatsoever. It then becomes impossible to continue kissing and worse, to give him oral sex.
Some women can take it or leave but it has always been a major part of my sex life,often the only thing I want to do,but now I find it impossible.
It is distressing me more than I can tell you, I long to please him ( and myself ! ) in that way.
Why is it happening and what can I do, Ive tried sucking mints,sweets and sipping water beforehand.
Even using the usual choc sauce,cream or whatever on him does no good.
Desperate now x x

[jno]

think of sucking a lemon... yes, I know, kind of inappropriate, but it gets saliva flowing

[indiandream]

Try biting the tip of your tongue, advise given when your mouth becomes dry. good luck! x

[mattie]

You could try this - "O My Natural Flavoured Lubricant", available from a uk based company www.lovehoney.co.uk.

[Pippa68]

All good suggestions!

The lubricant is good ~ I have tried it on occasion, and recommend the Ann Summers 'Lick' range...available in several flavours, including mint.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, well, you can pop round to mine if you want some lubricant beforehand...

[caveman69]

Thankyou everyone, really good constructive advice ( unlike what I got on Chatterbank which was nothing short of abuse and ridicule ! )
Will try them all and let you know x x

[gucciman]

you should come round my house to practise, my missus wont give me a bj for love nor money!