do i give in?

[leighashford]

plz help!! im 14 and still a virgin but my boyfriend(16) isnt. recently hes been pressuring me for sex, i said i would think about it but i dont know what to do! i sort of want to but im scared! what do i do, i dont want to loose him?

[Nat13]

Don't do it!!!! I lost my virginity when i was 12 and it wasn't great. i was pressured and thats the worst thing. Wait until your totally ready and have no doubts and then do it, you'll find it much more enjoyable! Good Luck

[secretspirit]

Just wanted to say what all the others are saying - any man who pressurises you doesn't really love you and it isn't worth doing until you're certain. I lost my virginity at 18 (which I thought was soooo late) after 6 weeks of seeing the man who's now my husband every day and it was all the more special for waiting. I don't regret waiting one bit and you never know who you'll meet in the future that will make you really happy.

[sexymoo]

IF UR BOYFRIEND REALLY LOVED U, HE WOULDNT PRESSURE U INTO ANYTHIN THAT U DIDNT WANT 2 DO. I SAY GET RID OF HIM BEFORE HE FORCES U INTO IT X X X X X X X X