I am the same; I go to bed and also cannot sleep, so I don't even bother fighting it now. I have spent many a night on the sofa watching TV without even closing my eyes once. Have you tried Nytol? They are pretty good, and are herbal, but again, easy to fight...you have to go to bed the second they start to take effect, but alot say they are good for keeping you asleep, but not getting you to sleep. I actually play solitaire on a handheld pc. It is so mundane that I fall asleep quickly; I won't download any other games as they would be too stimulating!