Following on

[leg_end758]

Following on from geff p thread about setbacks.
How would you best deal with a letdown or major disappointment in life?

Say someone close to you maybe husband or partner let you down badly how would you react /deal with it?

Can some things never be sorted?

[Louisa 69]

Depends what the setback was. I always give myself cooling off time when dealing with something like that.
Once i've had thinking time then i'll deal with it.

[funnygirl]

There is nothing much you can do.

You can either sit and sulk, brood.

Or you can get off your ass and get things done!!

I must admit I sulk for a while and then I am spurred on!!

[cazzz1975]

having some time away to calm down is a good idea, you have to do whats best at the time either for yourself or for everyone involved, it depends on how they let you down I expect

[dove]

every one is different legend, I suppose I have sat and sulked about things that have not gone my way in the past, but have also (as I get more mature--ok.... older) realise that I do have accept what has happened, OR if there is anything I can change............. theres no time like the present to try and change it for the better!!

[bensmum]

I have had a couple of major let-downs. I screamed to myself a couple of times then shook myself and got on with life!
It's not easy but life is too short to sit and wallow (mind you a good wallow in self pity does you the power of good occasionally)