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The thing is.....we are going to get there for 9am on Monday. As I've said, we'll stay somewhere overnight. If we were to not attend but ring them and explain the circumstances, I'll have to take another day off work somewhen else !! I've also thought about just arriving at the original time and pleading ignorance but if the assessments for the afternoon have been cancelled completely, then we're stuck! I also have to consider the feelings of my typical teenage daughter 'oh please don't do that, you might ruin my chances of an offer'.
I think I'll attend and write a letter after. This is so annoying and also from the only Uni (on my daughter's list) who want money for CRB checks etc. upfront (before offers have been made or accepted). All in all, Monday is going to cost me in the region of �100 - that's just for her assessment! Grrrrrrrrr