Finally got rid of him!

[katangel26]

Hi all, I finally dumped my boyfriend for the last time a few weeks ago (it is the last time, ain't gonna take him back again and be a fool!).

Thing is I've been out several times since (it's not that I'm looking but it's been pointed out to me) that I only ever seem to attract younger blokes! I've always looked younger than my age (got asked in the co-op today if I was over 21!). I'm 28.

All the blokes I attract seem to be in late teens very early 20's!

Is there a cure to this? I go to various places (mostly with a good mixture of ages).

Kate x

[cuddleMe]

Kate
youre like my mate shes alot older than me, shes in her mid thirtys, shes been married etc but she loves dating younger men, alot younger ranges from 19 - 26. i dont know why but i couldnt do that, the guy has to be older than me! where do u find these guys? around student areas? mayb we should meet up and find some older guys or guys around our age, but they are very difficult to find nowadays, where are they hiding? i mean the 'Decent' ones, not the ones who cheats.

[tazz]

i get same prob kate. im 28 to n get id everywhere. i dont let it worry me anymore just take it as a good thing. i stick to places like walk abt n places sim to that.x

[katangel26]

Hi cuddleMe, I know exactly what you mean! Where are all the decent blokes our age! My last boyfriend was 38 and I've always gone for the older bloke yet it seems to be the younger ones that are about and approach me. I live in Ipswich and it's student central here at the mo, will be even worse soon cos we've got a university opening here! Where abouts are you?

[cuddleMe]

kate
im in the yorkshire area, guys ive been with r arround 1 - 11yrs older than me, but all the connections r they all have a child which they either never see or went bk to their ex's for the sake of the child, its like evey single relationship i later find out they have a kid, it doesnt usually bother me but im prob just unlucky, but how unlucky can i b, i mean all the guys ive had relationship have a kid?? anyway ... i dunno where to find decent guys now,they r all probably already taken by now and we r left with the cheats, mayb there is someone out there for us, we just have to b patient! im actually thinkin of relocating because there r too many bad memories living here!