if you have parental resonsibility then a residency order could not have been granted without your input, a copy of the court application must be sent to you. As for the resident parent taking the child out of the country I'm not sure I think they can live where they like. however,my brother's wife did a runner to scotland with his kids, he went to a solicitor who got him into court that day and when she returned the kids on friday at 8pm for a visit a bailif was waiting to serve a temporary residence order in my brother's favour. the kids had to stay with their dad &she had to return to england the following monday and appear in court, a contact arrangement had to be agreed before residency could be granted to mother - so it was sorted in one day!!