I dont know who is in the wrong now....

[tiara4321]

I have been seeing a guy for 1 yr now.. the 1st time we met i was with my ex who i may add i hadnt been seeing sexually for 6mths. who i dropped of in a taxi. he doesnt believe it anyway, my ex kept ringing. i never ever called him. in the mean time my new man has lived with another lady. I havnt been dating anyone as am loyal to my partner. He keeps saying i would never ever trust a man like him cos hes a nice guy. Well to go of and live with someone after a split doesnt seem that nice to me.. And also the 1st person he called, was me to get back with me and hes searched through all my stuff. My ex phoned so i got my numbers changed. so now my guy has started picking at my phone book .He wants me to get rid of numbers of plutonic friends and i say i wont as why should anyone give up mates i have known over twenty years. he reckons im hanging on to exs. Which i am not. he also read a diary of mine i got for xmas .. which at the time i had split from him. and i had wrote down nasty thoughts. i had about him in private i should not of written them down...... this diary was locked and he broke it open.( i do love him.) But they say love is blind. maybe i should move on as he doesnt respect my thoughts. it wasnt like i told him .i kept them locked up. i now know not to trust anyone... he has made me feel i have done all wrong. Even though i have never ever slept with anyone since 6 mths before i met him... Am i going mad???? Is the guy trying to manipulate me ??? I need some advice so i can do the right thing ..... thanks..

[tiara4321]

thanks to you both.
I thought i was going mad, i dont even go out much and he thinks im on the phone to ex.s i should of walked ages ago but maybe the guy is a complete ar* ole. i just really need some one to tell me the truth about men like him as i have never witnessed it before. and if it happened to someone else i would be the first to see it.....LOVE is blind... how do you get love out your system.