Friends OR Partner?

[Roughquest]

Is it right that you should be forced to choose between your friends and your b/f ? My previous partner didnt like my friends (a lot of trouble was caused) and he gave an ultimatum of me or them, so I chose my friends, surely it shouldnt be this way, have any of you been is this position?

[ChocolatChip]

No, it's terribly wrong for your friends or boyfriend to make you choose.
However, people do it without realising sometimes. One of my old friends did not like my boyfriend at all, thought he was too old, and completely wrong for me. Yet time and again we proved them wrong. My friend treated my partner really badly when we went out, so I said I couldn't handle it anymore and told my friend that either he should live with it or forget our friendship. And he chose the latter. It was my decision to say it to him. But I felt I had to.

[mangosam]

ChocolatChip is completely right. This is a tuff situation but If you are in love with your boy friend you would be wise to talk it over with him and with your friends if you feel you can. My partner's best friend does not like me and I am not sure why but I don't let it get to me because I would go through anything for my partner because I love her. Your boy friend should observe his options and your friends should understand the pressure you are faced with. Perhaps you should listen to your friends and thier reasons and define the line between jealousy and concern. Just find what you really want and try some of these things I suggest. Take care of youself. If u have msn add me [email protected] I hope I helped