love

[help please!]

is this possible?  to know that your able to become  to love someone who your with, even though at the present time your no way, NO WAY there, as its too early.

am i making sense? how about; "i could fall for this person if we are together this time next year, i could end up even loving them."     ? ? ? 

if u think this is possible, do you think this would end up being just love, or 'in love?'  sorry if this is confusing, but id just like to hear other ppl's views.

[bernardo]

There was someone I knew at University with whom I was good friends for about 4 years.  I had known him for 3 years when it started occurring to me that, objectively, he was very attractive and that we had many common interests.  I thought that if I was ever going to fall in love with him then it would have happened a long time before already.  But then I did eventually fall in love with him about 6 months later.

I suppose the point is that people can fall in love with other people for all sorts of strange reasons and at all sorts of unexpected times.  You just have to wait to see what happens.

[ezapf]

I am trying to figure this out.

You think you are in love with this person, but you know it is too soon. Therefore you have decided that you are not in love, and that you must be having a gut feeling that you will someday be in love with this person.

Is this it? If this is the case, I think you like this person so much that you are hoping you will fall in love. You probably will. But how does the other person feel?

[El D]

not to know - how boring would that be? you can guess and see what happens tho

[RainbowBrite]

yes i think that's possible, when i was first interested in my last boyfriend (but he didnt know it yet) i said to my friend that i was worried that i was falling for him, then i got him, and later became in love!

[annemcc]

I have to say - you can know someone so well and never see their amazing qualities... I had an amazing friend for 8 years... then we dated - even tho I felt like we could only ever be friends... I was right. (I thought).. we were only supposed to be friends.. we over-stepped the boundaries..and we broke up.... now almost a year later... I am thinking that he has so many qualities.. he just fell in love with me at the wrong time... and now I am in love with him... and its too late.... thats not really an answer to your question.... but just goes to show - you have to have mutual love...  i think you can know that you will one day love someone... but you dont always know when love will come by surprise.... :-)