strange pain(sexual)

[mimigreen]

hello. i was fingered a few days ago and the guy was quite rough which i didn't mind at the time, he went really deep inside me quite hard and now i have a wierd pain right inside my vagina and also on the left side of my lower stomach. i say wierd because it aches but sometimes feels pleasurable at the same time. i am pretty sure this is the cause of the pain, has anybody had a similar experience? will it go away?

[happy_face]

Hi Mimigreen.
The same happens sometimes when you have intercourse. The inside of the vagina is soft tissue and lots of nerves and can easily get bruised. It'll calm down with time. Watch out that your partner hasn't got long fingernails as that'll hurt quite a bit.
In future ask him to be a bit more gentle as being rough can actually cause trush. Hope this helps

[Hgrove]

If there was a possibility he might have scratched/torn you inside (say with long fingernails or a signet ring) then I strongly suggest you see a doctor or clinic urgently in case you are getting an infection.  It could become serious.

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[Hgrove]

Mimigreen, in 1995 a man called Simon Slingsby was charged with manslaughter and tried in the Crown Court (he got off however).  His sexual partner had died of septicaemia after he had inserted his finger, wearing a signet ring, into her vagina, causing her internal injury. For your info. this case is referenced as R v Slingsby (1995) Crim LR 571.  I am sorry to write such a horrific message but if, touch wood, it helps you, then I think it is worth it.