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You really have to wonder what goes on in their heads! I think they can't get over not having power over someone. Perservere, you will get there eventually. My boyfriend now is lovely and has tolerated everything from me going to court to sitting in tears because he wouldn't leave me alone. A year and a half on I think he's got the message as I've heard nothing from him since last September when I took him back to court for texting me. Just make sure you report everything he does to the police as he will get the message that you are not soft and will not tolerate this from him. Let me know if you want my email address as I know what you're going through and it helps to speak to someone sometimes who has been in the same situation x