Well thanks, it's really nice of you all to understand. Am shocked at how tough I've found it to be honest. Knew she was the world to me, but guess I've never thought about losing her. Yeah I think I need some laughs, so hopefully there will be a few tonight. If not I'm off to bed, can't take the arguing right now, I'll just end up shouting (well writing in caps)!!
Anyway, back to knowing I'm stressed - when the tap takes too long to get hot!!!