help??????

[wiifan]

ive recently found out that my partner has been onto porn websites and even registered on one asking for sex with local women aged between 18 and 55, he doesnt see this as wrong.
ive paid a deposit on a rented house and have got the keys, ive got three children and have been dropping bags and boxes at the new house all day.
but i feel so so sad, i dont want to be with him anymore and the kids hate him so why am i feeling like this?

[zaidee_chops]

I know exactly how u feel. I found out that my ex started doing this when i was 4 months pregnant with his child. He was on about 25 profiles in all, with his photo saying he was single and looking for sex ..i couldnt believe it when i first saw it..u can understand that i had a very stressful pregnancy, and felt so rejected and unloved.
The best thing u can do with your partner is get rid of him..believe me you will never trust him again, its just so easy for people to cheat using the internet..and u will never be sure just how far he has gone.

[canasta]

Better to leave NOW.

[Gunther]

he sounds a right creep. No way let him move in with you and your children.

[cherrycherry]

are you the same person who is banging on about david tennant's sonic screwdriver?

[Ice.Maiden]

You're feeling sad because he's let you down, hun. Lots of men view porn - fair enough - but advertising for a bit of "fun" and a thrill while he's with you, just shows what he is. Get rid. xx

[wiifan]

thanku xx

[treborrobert]

lol i swinger lol ...

[ladyalex]

Bin him now and move on.
There's nothing but hurt ahead for you if you don't.
You're feeling bad because you have been mightily let down by someone you thought you could trust. Forgive yourself for making a mistake thinking you could trust him and try to get on with your life.
Be kind to yourself, buy yourself some treats , have a duvet day if you can (but limit it to one) then get cracking again. You are worth ten of him.(at least)

[Fairie]

what a creep he sounds, he's not worth a moment of sadness, you have 3 children who'll be glad to have their mum back, spend some time together with them and after a box of chocs and a dvd you'll be feelin better!

[Velvetee]

My partner viewing or downloading porn, wouldn't really bother me, as I think most men and some women are into it.

However, the fact he is registering on sites to actually meet other women for sex, is really not on. Also, as he see's nothing wrong with this tells me, he really doesn't give a damn what you think or that he is causing you pain and upset.

I think you should do the right thing, kick this sleaze bag into touch, so he can go off and meet as many 18-55 year olds as he likes. You deserve someone who will respect and treat you with decency and regard.

[kawa4]

ice. is dead right get rid.

[lil123]

My ex husband did things like this and was always having affairs too he lied through his back teeth. I think men like that don't deserve good women like us so you do best getting out and being on your own for a while you will meet someone decent when you are ready xx