Hi lil, hope you are well, will message you later, I think you should take the job, this will help you rebuild your self esteem and confidence,as well as the money side, you will meet new people and you might even enjoy it, the relationship is quite new, let it flow along nice and easy for a while, don't go too deeply into it just yet, give it time all will pan out for the best in the end and whats to be, will be, if it works with the boyfriend great you can then pack the job in if you want to, the main thing in life is to be happy, good luck and take care, Ray xx