Gutted.

[banjosister]

Split with my ex a month ago. I saw him today. He looks so much happier without me!

I'm just gutted.

Just needed to tell someone.

BB xx

[sunchime]

I've been in this position and it feels horrible.... if you see him again and he sees you, hold your head up high, smile and nod your head and move on. You never know,. he might be thinking exactly the same thing as you! X

[unrulyjulie]

Maybe he was happy to see you BB.

You just have to move on if there is not chance of you getting back together. How do you feel without him in your life?
Do you want him back or are you just upset that you think he was so unhappy when you were around?
Its a toughie but i agree with sunchime, hold your head up and smile. xx

[4getmenot]

He probably is happier with you as you seem to still hold a torch, next time smile back and hold your head up girl. Move on make yourself happy. xx

[4getmenot]

^^ sorry than you

[SKA]

Forget him, you'll find soemone else!!
He might have just seemed happy but wasn't really like esther-ami said!!

[banjosister]

Thanx guys for all your answers. I know that I have to go through a grieving process. He was the love of my life but we were just making each other unhappy.

As you say he could have been putting on a face. I have to sort myself out and learn to be happy with me. I think I was expecting him to make me happy rather than me making me happy.

Today is another day. I'm all cried out and I feel better for it.

Many thanx

BB xx

[merciasounds]

It's probably the Prozac! He can't be without you really!

[sunchime]

When I have broken up with people in the past, i have found it quite therapeutic to write them a letter....but then never send it to them! Destroy it! It is good to get your feelings out on paper, write down the stuff that used to annoy you about him...and just get your feelings out of your system, and then onto the paper.

Yeah, it sounds like a lame idea, but it has worked for me (also written letters, but never sent them to my boss and mum about how much they pi$$ me off!)

It makes me feel better anyway...

[ftj001]

You're not gutted. Remember, men most often show no emotions. You saw a show!

[banjosister]

Merica, you dont know how right you are, its not prozac tho!

sunchime, we've split up several times and I have actually written letters and sent them to him, dont know if he ever read them tho.

fjt, you may be right but its academic. He is one of these people who is always happy. My perfect man - apart from the fact that he's an addict.

It's gettin easier is all I can say!

BB xx