What should i do?

[Lizbr]

i have a boyfriend but we dont get along that much so i cheated on him ,but now i like the other guy ,but my boyfriend is so nice to me ,so now i dont know what to do should i break up with him or should i stay with him and forget the other guy??????????

[888sally888]

Hi Liz
Wel, if you cheated on your boyfriend he is obviously not the one for you.
I would say you need a bit of time out before you rush into another relationship.
Does the new man know you had a bf when you cheated with him? If he did know, would he ever trust you?

[bms]

I'm willing to understand you.
In the first sentence, you say you and your b/f don't get along that much, in third sentence you say that he is nice to you. or may be its before when you were not getting along, Just clarify it a litle bit.

[Velvetee]

If you don't get on and you cheat on him. Don't you think you should give the guy a break. Let him go, so he can find someone who really want's him and who wont cheat on him. He probably deserves alot more than you are willing to give him.

[RevFunk]

Shouldn't you be watching play school or doing some colouring in???

[ftj001]

Oh My god please don't do that to him. If you are really sure that u don't want to be with him, let him know. You don't have to be rude, just tell him u don't think its working out and you don't feel as close to him as u used too. Do not tell him that you found someone else. That is the worse thing you could do to him. If you are truly happy with this other guy and you are sure you want to be with him then be with him, not because you are not getting along with your boyfriend. The other guy could be temporary relief from what your going through at home. You really need to step out of the situation and reflect on what you would want someone to do for you in this situation. Don't do what men do everyday. They move to someone else because they think the grass is greener, its not. The grass turns brown every now and then. It may be brown now but there is a chance that it can be green again!

[lil123]

Good advise there ftj001 x It may be good to just have a break from men in general that's what I'm doing at the moment x

[ftj001]

Thanks lil123,

I guess because I'm going through a really bad patch in my marriage right now, I can kinda relate to the person that is not aware of what is going on in the relationship. MY question is: Is it safe to say my marriage is over, come visit. I would tell u everthing now but its a long long story. Would love to here your advice.