Do I Approach her or not

[bms]

I have a friend who is a female, anyway I am a male. The problem is I love her, and when we are just talking most of the time we do not talk about our relationships, and she sometimes joke about saying, "what are you doing with your mony cause you've got no gf, kids and wife" Her words. Those types of jokes, but its difficult to approach the subject. She has got a two year old daughter and she is no longer in love with her bf, that one I founded it out by chance.
Any advice please.

[kujawski]

get in there!

[mistys]

Hey bms, the only options you have are to ignore the feelings and hope they go away (which I doubt they will) or talk to her and explain how you are feeling.

She may not be in love with her current boyfriend, but that doesn't mean she will be willing to leave him if she found out about how you feel. She is clearly staying with him for the sake of their child, and that might not ever change.

I can't offer much advice other than talk to her, but don't get your hopes up and there is a big risk that your friendship will break down once you have admitted you are in love with her. Make sure it's worth the risk.

You could also try and start a new realtionship, once you've found someone else to focus your attention on the feelings towards your friend may change. Good luck with whatever you decide. - xx

[bms]

She is not staying with him. They rarely see or call each other and that's if they do. She is an independant woman.She grows their daughter on her own.

[mistys]

So talk to her, but like I said, be prepared to risk your friendship if she doesn't feel the same way. Good Luck - xx

[ftj001]

She is trying to find out whether you have someone or not. Ask her out and see what happens?