I try to treat and understand other people as I'd like them to treat me, Aprilis. I was brought up to think about other folk, and I just do my best. I can't please all the people all of the time, but I've seen a lot in 29 years, which gives me an insight into the feelings of others. I'm a "shoulder" for many of my friends, who're often older than me, and I can only put myself in their position and give an opinion based on what I'm told. I'm not always right - far from it - but I try to have compassion, rather than be a bitch. Thanks anyway. Really hope that foot doesn't give you too much stick - xxx