What am i ? HELP!!

[2468]

Sometimes i think im gay but sometimes i dont , anyone had that experience ? can anyone help me ?

[Marvin84]

Maybe you are bi-sexual..... Maybe you're not, maybe you shouldn't worry about giving yourself a label, or trying to live up to one!!! Best of Luck!

[Tweed]

You're gay

[WaldoMcFroog]

Ignore Tweed. It would be impossible for anyone on this list to say what your sexuality is. Whatever it is, it will be a major part of who you are, so it's important you understand this.

I think you should realise that if you are gay, it's hardly the worst thing in the world. It may take some time to come to terms with, and you may get a rough ride from a few idiots, but increasingly people (by which I mean straight people) are entirely unbothered about people's sexuality. There shouldn't be anything to be ashamed about, and it's other people who have a problem, not you.

You don't say how old you are, but I get the impression you may be a teenager. Many teenagers experience some issues about their sexuality and this can be a very confusing time, but eventually, you will probably realise where your true sexuality lies, whether gay, straight or bi. For your own sake, if you feel that you need to talk to someone about it, make sure it is someone that you can trust. I would imagine it is very distressing to have such a big thing out in the open before you are ready. It's your sexuality, and your decision when to tell the world.

Finally, good luck - I hope your journey is an easy one.

[spiff]

all i've got to say is: does it really matter? i'm not trying to be trite, but why do you want, or maybe need to label yourself? give yourself your permission to feel what you want. gay people which i know tend to classify themselves as "men who fall in love with men".  Final point: as waldo says, you need to be able to talk to someone about this,as it is obviously causing you heartache. have you got close and trustworthy friends you could talk to?    xx