romance need help!!!

[JENANDED]

do you stay with a man for your child?security? and because he is agood man but your not in love with him, and argue alot? verse aman 15 years older then yourself that makes you smile, happy? loves you to death and vice versa? what is really important in life?

[missspeedy23]

My mum stayed with my dad because of me and they used to argue all the time which then had an effect on me. You can't stay with someone you don't love just because of a child because it will end up affecting them as well. Obviously you need to do what's best for your child but also for you as well. How old is your child?

[unrulyjulie]

agree with missspeedy. I went through it with my Mum and Dad and it was awful.
Never stay for the children, they are resilliant and ultimately, if you are unhappy, it will affect them.

Life is short and you're a long time dead so be happy.

[funnygirl]

What is really important in your life, is your happiness and health.

You're obviously not happy with your man and the arguments will get you down and your child will pick up on this!!
It is daunting to leave someone after all the security they've provided, but it is not always the best situation to be in.

I think I'd rather be poor and happy, after all things do get better and change.

[Seafarer1966]

Agree with previous comments. Kids adapt...it's the adults that don't cope.