Am I wrong to be anoid???

[unhappychick]

I have been with my partner for approx 6 months, the problem is his parents, he still lives at home (he is 30) with his parents, and on the other hand I have my own house and 2 children. When he told his parents about me they hit the roof, said he is wasting his life with someone "like me" and made me out to be the biggest scumbag on the earth, all because I have 2 children, they couldnt be more further from the truth, I am a good mum, keep a clean and tidy home and do the best for my children, he has ignored there comments and we have continued our relationship, however I find it difficult to listen to things they have said about me, not just them his sister as well, she was saying to him, "make sure you dont get her pregnant"!!! I was livid, I told him I do have my own mind and can make a decision on wether or not I want another child and at this moment in time its the last thing I want! There comments are very disrespectful and hurtful, Last night my partner said to me that he will be going to a wedding reception in a few weeks, I took it from that I wasnt invited, I asked him whos wedding it was and he said it was his mums friends daughters, I went very quiet after this, and am feeling that by going without me, he is letting me down, its like he is going along with his mothers wishes and putting my feelings on the back burner. I also have another concern, the last few times he has stayed here when he goes to have a wash in the morning , he is taking his mobile in the b.room with him, this morning I said "why did you take your phone in the bathroom" he said "Idont know" with a puzzled look on his face....now im feeling he is hiding something from me the fact that he is keeping the phone close to his chest at all times, even though his behaviour towards me gives me no cause for concern, however I find this odd and am tempted to look at it when he is asleep, am I wrong to be feeling like I do about these 2 issues that I have?

[tigerlily11]

Prehaps he is takng his phone with him because he knows u are aware of what his family thinks and he doesn't want you to hear him argue with them if they call or answer the phone to them if he doesn't have it with his. In which case he is looking after you.
I can see your insecurity having come from one bad relationship. It knocks u for six doesn't it.
But you came back and to me that makes you better than any opinion they might have of you.

[ethanryan]

hiya, i feel for you and have been in a similar situation to you, i dont like saying to much on here but my e mail is [email protected] if you fancy a chat