I know it is probably a bad move but...................

[banjobabe]

Split up from my long term partner around two months ago.

I do not want a relationship with him anymore.

Today I am contemplating asking if he wants to meet up for no strings sex.

What do you think?

It's a bad move isn't it?

Thanx in advance for your answers.

Bb xx

[ChuckFickens]

Well my phone number is .... :)

No don't do it, if you really want to split from this guy then thats what you need to do. you will never fully separate from him and get on with your life if you keep going back for sex.

[blondie83]

Bad move. Dont go there. it's not fair on him. or you.

[andrea81]

I don't think there is such thing as 'no strings attached' sex! I honestly think it means something to someone!

Think your instinct is right! Bad move! ;0)

[banjobabe]

Thanx guys,

Yeah I do know this. I just need some love ;(

Oh well.

back to old friends lol

Bb xx

[leelapops]

Awww BB that is sad :( I know how you feel, but you are contradicting yourself a little hun, because as andrea says, there is no such thing as "no-strings" sex, and you know yourself, from what you have said, that implied in the sex is a degree of love, which you are craving.

If you want to go out and pull, do it, but please don't sleep with your ex...It'll totally complicate things in your head.
x

[weeal]

it will mess your head up and make you feel bad about yourself and him, i once thought it was a good idea and regretted it - took me another 6 months to get rid of him again lol

[CAJ1]

No banjobabe! Don't do it! You know its a bad thing to do... you'll feel crappy afterwards and then you'll be getting feelings for him again and then you'll probably get hurt

[banjobabe]

Thanx guys for your answers.

I know I shouldn't do it. I know that if I do then I will start to have feelings for him again.

I've been fighting the urge to text him all week and have been successful so far!

I shall be strong.

Happy daze!

Bb xx

[raysparx1]

You still got feelings for him? seems like it to me, do you really think you can have no strings sex with somebody you split up with, not only bad idea, you or him or both of you can end up getting really hurt doing that, you might not want to rekindle the relationship, what if he does,? what if he still hurts,? he will be thinking about getting back together again, if you have split for good, keep it that way, or there will be tears, lots of tears and lots of pain,

[banjosister]

Cheers raysparx1,

I know.

Just needed confirmation that I was right lol

I do have feelings for him but can't go back.

Just a bit hormonal lol

Bb xx

[jno]

everybody's right... I think there is such a thing as no-strings sex - just not with a recent ex! There would be strings all over the place.

[banjosister]

jno,

you are right of course.

I havent.

And wont.

I knew it was the worst move I could possibly make, everyone said more or less the same thing.

Cheers :)

Bb xx

[lil123]

If I was wanting to do that which I have done in the past, I would go for someone I hardly knew to avoid any complications that could occur. I tried this one with my ex but he read it that it was us getting back together which is not what I wanted.

[weeal]

well.....did you stay strong or do you have a smile on yer chops?

[banjosister]

Hey Weeal,

I have a smile on my face ;)

Because


I stayed strong

lol

Happy daze

Bb xx

[weeal]

hee hee good for you girl !

[banjosister]

Hey Guys,

Will give you all stars when I get back to work

LOL

Cant remember my password for BB!

Happy daze

Bb xx