Trying to help my sister

[Madison68]

My elder sister has left her marriage, but is going to struggle financially when it comes to buying a house etc. I've offered to help her, even if it's only to pay the deposit. She knows she can stay at my house if she ever wants to. It's frustrating because she won't take any help from any of the family. Is it best to butt out of this, or try and help her in ways that aren't so obvious?

[4getmenot]

If she is too proud to take any help then leave her to it

[ethanryan]

all you can do is offer to help her, if she refuses then dont push it or you may push her away, just keep reminding her that you are there if she needs you.

[Velvetee]

Wish you were my sister. Mine is a selfish cow.