In answer to your question, it depends on the person.
If I was me, then my own company is a delight to behold, with interests far and wide, cultured with intelligent wit and a little dab of humorous sarcasm. I am adventurous with a thirst for the new and exciting, always looking to see, hear or learn something new even if that is learning about me.
If I was you I would do what whiffey said. Its good to search for the inner self, its good for our souls (sic).