Miscarriage!

[Kymrobo81]

i posted the other day to say i had been bleeding + for any advice, but last nite i suffered a Miscarriage at 10 weeks pregnant! It all came away at home + i was in A + E till 4 am this morning bein Checked over. i have a Scan in the morning at 10.45am to make sure that it has all come out, incase of infection... Has anyone else ever suffered a Miscarriage? It was My 2nd Pregnancy + my 1st was Perfect! i would like to try again as soon as possible, does any one know how long you have to wait before trying for another baby after a Miscarriage?? x x

[ibizababy101]

Sorry to hear that but i dont no x

[ethanryan]

hi my mom suffered the same as you, only she was about 22 weeks. she tries again 3 months later and carried my brother full term with no problems.

very sorry to hear your bad news x keep your chin up

[sleepy1]

sorrry to hear that ..i also had one years a go i was about 15 weeks . i had a op after just to clean everything out ....they tell you to wait 3 months ...

[andrea81]

so sorry it wasn't good news for you. My friend is going through this for the second time!

She was told to wait 3/6 months, but she didn't on her first misscarriage and is having another miscarriage. I think it is wise to ask for advice and stick to it as you need to make sure your body is right!

chin up chick x x x

[redcrx]

Im sorry to hear of your loss.

I cannot offer any advice myself but can recommend an ivillage messageboard (as well as AB) for support and advice at this awful time.

http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-ukpbmis carry

Try and take time to grieve and recover from your loss.

[I Love Snow]

Please don't try to soon. You need time to get your head around whats happened. I've had four in just under 2 years and still have trouble every so often with what happened. I am now 27+ weeks with my 5th pregnancy and it's not going very well but please wait a few months before trying again. I fell pregnant just a few weeks after my first miscarriage as i ignored the docs and blamed myself for having my 2nd miscarraige because i didn't wait. x

[Kymrobo81]

Thank you all for your advice.... I Love Snow, to have that many Miscarriages must be awful, as having just this one is bad enough! i just couldnt begin to ever imagine having another one... I think the Psycological effect is the worst part! I Think i will wait till August before tying for another baby... i wish you lots of luck with the rest of your Pregnancy, You More than deserve to have a very happy ending. x x x

[I Love Snow]

I'm glad that you've decided to wait. It's only a few months and it will give you and your body time to sort things out. xx

[Ice.Maiden]

So very sorry to hear of your loss Kymrobo. I'm sure that things'll go better in the future - x

[radiogaga]

kymrobo81.
sorry to hear about your loss.
im no stranger to miscarrage and stillbirth.
last year i miscarried for 4 months, as i have a bicordonate uterus which is loveheart shaped, and they decided not to perform the d&c procedure as it was deemed too risky.
it took 4 months of bleeding every day before the last remains came away.
horrific was the word, i was anemic, weak and just trying to get through every day caring for my then one year old.
this time im treading water - waiting for the sign or shooting pain to come like before, but so far so good.
these experiences only make us stronger, you must try to believe this i do.
rest well and much love and hugs, sara. xxxxx

[Kymrobo81]

Radiogaga (Sara), i went along to EPU/Gynaeocology 2day for a Scan + there is some left, but they are leaving it to pass thru naturally. They did a Pregnancy Test + it is showing Positive still (Because there are parts of Conception left) I Have to do a Pregnancy test in 3 weeks + if its still Positive i will have to go back + have another Scan + i may need some help to get the rest out, if any. Hopefully everything will go ok tho - Fingers Crossed... Hopefully you will be fine. i will follow your progress - as you know, we where due the same time.... x x

[radiogaga]

kymrobo81.
the doctor and nurses at the EPU i attended were lovely and they listened when i talked and talked, and they hugged when i needed one.
i hope you this next process is over and done with for you.
then you can grieve properly and get your strength back.
sara. xx
ps, eat eat eat.

[beverleymot]

sorry to hear that kymrobo- i miscarried a few years ago n went on to have 2 kids so im sure you will have another bundle in your arms soon.

Take care of yourself xx