Yes, I'd agree with 4getmenot and ethandron. Your friend's GP can help with getting in contact with MacMillan - they will give a lot of support. Also, tell your friend to contact CancerBacup (they have a website, just Google it). A lot of the bigger hospitals have care services for cancer sufferers and their family, too, so once the wheels are put in motion for your friend's dad, I'm sure you'll find that there's a lot of help and support available out there. Good luck. K xxx
(4getmenot, I'm sorry to hear about your fella - I hope evrything turns out OK for you both) K xxx