As you probably realise I am one of the 2 people Bez trusts , and she is one of the few people on a AB I trust, but I do think that issues that have nothing to do with this site, or even the several other open or closed sites that are often referred to, are issues that actually have been created from situations and contact that go beyond an internet site. It therefore strikes me that it really is not the concern of this site what is going on with people who are in touch offline, how many people on here are interested in it all, not me for one. There is one way to prevent any future arguments like this, keep it off the internet.