Sometimes I wish I wasn't brought up so well, accepting my responsibilities, having a conscience and all that.
I have a ludicrous mortgage, even more ludicrous loans / credit card debts etc. Food prices and fuel costs don't help much but ultimately my other half and I got ourselves into this situation, and it's our responsibility to deal with it. And so we do - work a little harder, cut back here & there. Consolidate if necessary, but ensure we always pay what we owe.
I can't see it being a great life having to live below the radar, to avoid detection by your creditors. And lost in all this is your co-conspirator - your own mother - who is also caught up in this! Your mother is lying for you, and she is part of this - surely that's fraudulent?
It would be much better for you to accept your debt, go to the CCCS or Citizens Advice, arrange a repayment schedule, even if it's only �5 a week - and make the effort to pay it off. That way you no longer have to hide and drag your mother down with you. Ultimately this will come back and bite you in the ass, why would you want the hassle of that in years to come?