Dont know what to do

[4getmenot]

Some of you may know that I have been very worried lately about my bloke while he's going through some tests for cancer. Its just I havent been able to speak to my closest mate about it. Every time she rings or comes round she has a problem with the boy she fancies or arguments at home. some really trivial things and before I can tell her she comes out with all this and then I feel I cant say anything, incase that stops her coming to me for advice. Does anyone get what I;m trying to say. She has just rang up to say she has booked an appointment at docs because she has funny feeling in tummy and thinks she can feel a lump. She's forever going to docs with allsorts I just want to talk to her but cant. I;m sure she can sense that I really cant be bothered with her love life at min. I just dont want to come across as selfish or trying to get sympathy if I do tell her.

[Hellyon]

But when it is OK to tell her, whether it be good or bad news, she will understand if she's a true friend and if she doesn't then you need to think again about whether she is the right friend for you. Sadly in a crisis your friends show their true colours and not always in the way you'd expect!

[888sally888]

4get - I cant realy add anything new but just want to send you my love and luck for you and your boyfriend x

[4getmenot]

Thank you

[4getmenot]

Hellyon she has proved such a good mate to me in the past even having to tell me that my ex had cheated on me even though it turned out to be rubbish I know she is a true friend for telling me what she had heard. I think I will just have to wait until results and see. In meantime I know I can come on here to talk. x