Help Me Please

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What do you do if your partner thinks that you are not telling them the truth and you are, but they can not see it? But they are being funny towards you?

[Scarlett]

Tell him/her that you are telling the truth, and there is nothing else that you can do to prove it. If they don't trust you then how can you have a future together? You have to ask them for their trust, unless you can actually prove your innocence!

[dirtyharriet]

It depends what the circumstances are, whether you have given them reason to doubt your honesty before and whether your partner is refusing to believe you as a way of punishing or controlling you.
Is this a serious matter like not believing you haven't been unfaithful or a case of something more trivial??
As I don't know your situation, all I can say is that if you have tried your best to assure your partner of your honesty and they don't believe you, then your relationship is in trouble.

[MadlySane]

I  agree with the answers given.

How would you feel if your closest friend did not believe you? Think about that for a minute. All good relationships are built on trust. Without that you have nothing.

Through personal experience I know that people that don't believe you are usually the ones with something to hide themselves and/or have low self esteem and need to build confidence and learn to love themselves, but only you can look at things and work that out for yourself.

Best of luck with things.

[Octavius]

If, as above, it is something that is fairly trivial then it is probably worth just dropping it rather than trying and trying to convince your partner.  If your partner continues to to disbelieve and continues to go on about it and act funny then they either need to grow up and start trusting you or realise that with that kind of distrust the relationship does not have much of a future. 

Good luck.

[Angi F]

hi, i have exactly the same problem with my partner and its driving me mad. Ive told him he has to believe and trust me otherwise there is no point in having the relationship and he will end up driving me away. I have never been unfaithfull or lied to him in 2yrs and dont understand why he is like this.