What do you think

[blondie83]

Ok, i just want your opinions on if i'm being petty ect. My parents live abroad (lets say France) so me and my mate just went out there to visit them. (cheap holiday for the both of us) Anyways, to cut a long story short, my mate and i had gone clubbing on our last night, it got to 7am and i was ready to leave, but my mate refused and was determind to stay out so she could sh*ag this bloke we'd met. anyways, so i went home, to my parents, (with the only key) and she stayed out. I told her not to wake my parent up when she waltzed in so she said she'd wait outside til we were up. but she didn't. at 9am she waltzed in, rang the doorbell for my dad to let her in. I know it sounds soooo petty, but i am so angry with her, not only was she so desperate gor a sh*g, she stayed with a random man in a foreign country whilst my mum and dad were at home worrying, AND we had a plane to catch in a few hours. I'm sorry but if it was me and my friends parents house, i wouldn't dream of doing that. I'd have more respect for them, myself and my friend. She must know i'm angry with her cos i barely spoke to her on the way home, she went straight to her sisters and hasn't been home since. Am i just being silly? (please bare in mind that this particular friend will sleep with anything with a pulse, and she was acting so desperate on holiday that it was embassasing).

[Supernick]

Were your parents up all night until 7am waiting for you both? If so it seems a little selfish on both your parts.

If they went to bed that night and then got up early to enjoy their holiday, why on earth would they go back to bed on their daughter's say so for a couple of hours? Something doesn't seem to add up properly.

It sounds like she probably sleeps around a lot, but who cares? I think that going on holiday, and then fancying someone on your last night and having sex with them isn't that much of a sin. You sound more like you were disappointed to be left to come home on your own, which is understandable. It also seems that there is a mixture of slight jealousy, but more strongly a sense that maybe you're different people with different standards and you're unsure if it's compatible with good friendship.

I do think you're over-reacting though.

[blondie83]

My mum and dad wern't on holiday, they live there, so they had no reason to get up early, mum woke up when i got in at 7 cos she had a feeling that just one of us had come home, i told her what happened and said she may aswell go back to bed. as for me me being jealous, i could have easily got a sh@g had i wanted one, but i don't sleep with the first guy who shows me attention.

[Oneeyedvic]

, mum woke up when i got in at 7 cos she had a feeling that just one of us had come home,

So you did disturb them as well

[Doc_Spock]

I think you are jealous cos you didn't get a sh@g.

[mandimoo]

how old are you and your friend? just curious, i havent really got anything to add, other than i would probly be annoyed myself, for a little while and then get over it.

[blondie83]

Mandimoo, we're both 25. tbh i am over it now, was just angry at the time cos of the lack of respect for my parents and I. (clearly in everyone else's eyes that MUST mean jealousy!). It seems that i'm the one being attctked here!) anyways, thanks for all your answers.

[Supernick]

I'm not attacking you, but it seems very much like you both disturbed them, you at 7am and her at 9am. For 'feeling' someone had come home, read, woken up by a drunken noise.

So I guess all you can be angry about is that she has different views on sexual promiscurity to you. But then why would you be angry at that?