Wardy -I have just revised my will -I am going into the kiln -none of this going to graves and seeing in your minds eye a decaying body.I can barely go to my Nannies cos all I see is her bones -it freaks me !!
I am to be cremated (Eco friendly coffin) and then my ashes are to planted with a wee headstone -purely for my children and their children sake -in my local cemetary with a wee headstone -so they can come and see me,