See, you have to wait a few dates to make sure you steer clear of guys like Sgt.Rock who "expect" things from you.
You should go out with people you click with, not people who are taking you out because they "expect" something.
When you find somebody who does click with you, then the fun you can have together is incredible. Believe me Sgt.Rock, if a guy clicks with me, he will have a very, very nice time. But if he starts out on the basis that he "expects" something from me ... well, then he's gonna miss out altogether.