relationship payback

[SHELLP]

I recently posted on here about my ex who assulted me and is due in court soon probably looking at a custodial sentence. I was really upset cos my life is a mess on tablets cos of all the trouble while he seemed to be having a good time with someone 20 years younger than himself. Now however noone has seen this girl for a while and he has lost his job and is in the local pub drinking every day by teatime he is so drunk he can hardly walk. Am I wrong to feel some satisfaction that his life is going the same way as I feel mine is down at rock bottom. Even so another part of me feels sorry for him.

[sara3]

no, you're spot-on, Shell!

onwards and upwards :o)

[SHELLP]

cheers Sara u were one who offered me support and although not feeling much better getting some satisfaction out of his situation at the moment.

[bimbo123456]

Sounds like you're well rid of this loser. Hope you find someone worthy of you. Meanwhile, enjoy being single and doing what you want when you want. XX

[raysparx1]

Hi SHELLP, just be thankful you got rid of the turd, your life is going to get better, he is in for a real rough time, what goes round comes round, be happy and try to look towards the light. xx

[SHELLP]

thanks everyone am trying to move on and even going out tonight x

[Rosetta]

Great to hear, and rather than being at rock bottom you are on the up!!
Stick with it, things will get better and better without that loser.

[SHELLP]

Cheers once again everyone, had a good night last night enjoyed myself .Maybe things wont work out to bad

[Sgt.Rock]

Bet you take him back before too much longer

[squarebear]

Don't feel sorry for him. What goes around comes around. I personally would laugh my head off at him.

[SHELLP]

Why will I take him back sgt?

[Sgt.Rock]

Because I've sen your postings on here before and you still have strong felings for him obviously. Is he back yet?

[SHELLP]

sgt I will never take him back I have been out everynight this weekend and had a good time and I've got a date for next week.

I will admit when I broke up with him and he did all this I was devestated but I feel stronger every day going to see a counseller and will break the control he had over me and will give evidence against him. He is a drunken bully who will try and control whatever woman he is with but thats nopt my problem I have reported to social services about his new relationship because of the child involved but thats the end of that.

He controlled me for 4 years long enough and I know the things he said to destroy me were not true prison is too good for him