is it normal?

[-Em-mE-]

to still have feelings for your ex and they to you after a year of breaking up over nothing?


the problem arises is now, because i am in a relationship...but everytime he pops up...i am soooooo gone.


help.

[obNOXious]

It's been well over a year since my divorce and a long tiome before that that we split up and my wife is now with another man and pregnant by him.
She lives in another country, but when I see her or even talk to her on the phone I do nothing but wish I hadn't made the stupid errors I did. But I do live in hope that this will pass, cos it's no fun at all, and I do believe that it will and that inevitably the right thing has happened for at least one of us and the other will just have to get on with it and grow from our mistakes.
So yeah I think it's prefectly normal, but I'd caution against acting on the attraction though.

[MiniN]

if you still have serious feelings (and not ones of nostalgia) for your ex then you shouldn't be another relationship until you've resolved these.

how would you feel if your current bf was feeling the way you do about HIS ex?

[Octavius]

Depends what you mean by feelings.

You either both want to be together or you don�t. If you are just using each other to toy around with other peoples� lives then that is remarkably unfair and selfish.

If you just feel that there are things between you, but no future in a relationship then you need to break that tie and get on with your life. Move on. Focus on new relationships.

Either way you need to decide whether it is your own life and love that you are wasting away, or those of the people who dare to step between you.

[-Em-mE-]

well he randomly will pop up...like i will see in in random places while i live my everyday life. im a wee bit concerned because it makes me second guess my relationship now..and i am with a loving man who has only given love....he knows my feeling sfor my ex and can take them...byut i hate the feeling of being uncertain when it comes to the 2

[4getmenot]

I will always love my ex but in a different way to how I love my now boyfriend. At end of day I just look at it that I am so much happier than I was back then x