ChatterBank5 mins ago
Phone switched off !!
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For whom it may concern.*rolls eyes*
O and husbands on silent so dont waste any more time with your drunken rambling abusive texts.
As you were peeps lol
Another day in the world of stupidly trusting someone lol
O and husbands on silent so dont waste any more time with your drunken rambling abusive texts.
As you were peeps lol
Another day in the world of stupidly trusting someone lol
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Many fathers abandoned their families, when the responsibilities of life and parenting become too much for them. Reasons or abandonment include: their own abandonment issues from childhood, problems with the children's mothers, addictions, unable to handle parental responsibilities at the time, not wanting a child and the mother not willing to have an abortion or give the child up for adoption, among other issues that cause men to leave.
In many cases the men were part of what I call Sperm Donor Relationships where they procreate and once the baby is born, move on.
Years later, for some reason, men sometimes find a need to make amends and reconnect if possible, especially if they've worked on their issues.
Holidays and seasons come and go with the speed of light and these men feel a need to reconnect.
If the children are in school, the fathers seek visitation rights, often causing court battles with unwilling mothers to whom they owe thousands of dollars in back child support.
If the children are grown, the fathers seek a friendship with the child, and a way to justify or explain their leaving. One should always listen to both sides of the story, and view reality within the energies and goals of letting go and releasing pain.
In many cases they just wonder how the child turned out and want to reintroduce themselves. Most of these children, as I read them, do not want to emotionally connect, just a casual meeting in which their soul knows what their biological father has done with his life, to help them understand and heal their own issues.
For some the ending is happy, for others it is sad, as fathers are shunned or they discover that the child they walked away from is deceased.
Again one must step outside of the box and view the dramas of paternal abandonment in the bigger picture, another aspect of the game from which one must detach
In many cases the men were part of what I call Sperm Donor Relationships where they procreate and once the baby is born, move on.
Years later, for some reason, men sometimes find a need to make amends and reconnect if possible, especially if they've worked on their issues.
Holidays and seasons come and go with the speed of light and these men feel a need to reconnect.
If the children are in school, the fathers seek visitation rights, often causing court battles with unwilling mothers to whom they owe thousands of dollars in back child support.
If the children are grown, the fathers seek a friendship with the child, and a way to justify or explain their leaving. One should always listen to both sides of the story, and view reality within the energies and goals of letting go and releasing pain.
In many cases they just wonder how the child turned out and want to reintroduce themselves. Most of these children, as I read them, do not want to emotionally connect, just a casual meeting in which their soul knows what their biological father has done with his life, to help them understand and heal their own issues.
For some the ending is happy, for others it is sad, as fathers are shunned or they discover that the child they walked away from is deceased.
Again one must step outside of the box and view the dramas of paternal abandonment in the bigger picture, another aspect of the game from which one must detach
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well can you blo0dy tell them youre not me by proving something just to get them off my bleeding back -I seriously dont need this ATM -fun later not just now.In fact why am i ******* justifying,myself -who cares its doesnt matter -as you were Misty ease off icey as she is a friend of mine the rest just do what you want -Ii coulldnt give a flyer now and thats the truth on R and J's lives -how many would do that eh???? O and on R and J 's lives im not AB girl either in fact im only ******* Drisgirl -what a duller that must be for you all !!!
Well i ******* would as they are my will to live so any ******* out there who thinks I am anyone else think on -just think on what I have just posted.
Well i ******* would as they are my will to live so any ******* out there who thinks I am anyone else think on -just think on what I have just posted.
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go away you scumbag
u a father? really?
look after your child/children
surely they miss their daddy
well they would coz hes always on the puter
spend some time with your child/children scumbag instead of wasting the precious time u should have with them posting on here
ps when did ur pal last post a porn link?
disgusting
u a father? really?
look after your child/children
surely they miss their daddy
well they would coz hes always on the puter
spend some time with your child/children scumbag instead of wasting the precious time u should have with them posting on here
ps when did ur pal last post a porn link?
disgusting