I'm sorry to say this but it sounds just like a lame ditch excuse not to take the relationship further. The fact is, if someone really loves you, they will want to be with you no matter what - love conquers all. Believe me I know, as I had a long distance relationship which didn't work out. So being treated negatively by friends should not be an excuse. It's hard, but there IS someone out there for you and you will look back in time and be glad you were well shot of him! Good luck.