jelously? why do we put up with it

[Banana-Girl]

Hi i am one of the lucky ones who met Mr bad guy when I was young but am now in a stable relationship (I think), however like most women have to work to pay the mortgage etc etc, I am a sales rep which means times apart for training, meetings, and I could go on. But because my job is in sales I work long hours and by doing so it enables us to pay the mortgage and the extras but for example now get a hard time off our partners do any of you guys feel the same

[Banana-Girl]

In other words i find it hard to switch off, my partner is resentfull works in a factory and although he does shifts doesnt realize my job is 24/7, any advise please

[JonnyBoy12]

If I get to know a horse very well, would I also be a stable relationship?

[jno]

Is he contributing to the mortgage himself? If he's offering to take on all the repayments so you can retire and live a life of leisure, I'd accept. If not, he'll just have to realise that people have financial responsibilities to fulfil; he has his, you have yours. You mentioned jealousy - is he jealous of you? Of your job or your income or the time you spend out of the house? You might need to sit down and talk this through with him. Don't let yourself be exploited.

[meimoona]

heyaa huni

i jus wanna say that i can understand ur problem because it happents to my mum just the same as you!

she's always working and feels like she dosen't have time to spend with her family and her husband.
i can see you have the similar problem and i think you shoud have a little chat with your family especially ur husband and always tell him how much you love him and your only doing this because of him.
by doing this he will feel that he is supported by you and you care and love him alot

byeee xx

[Banana-Girl]

Wow what lovely answers and very supportive thanks guys for your advice and taking the time to respond x

[Banana-Girl]

Jonnyboy 12 "Neigh" lol

[JonnyBoy12]

Well, I like a little horseplay with fine fillies.

[Banana-Girl]

Jonnyboy12 your a nutter lol x