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Look the s$%t only hit the fan last week when she lost contact with family, so you can see the sort notice issue.
She is a sensible person who I honestly cannot see doing that sort of job.
Don't you dare shout at me when i am only trying to help this person.
I do not where the college is so i will suggest she get an evening job, but doubt she will take the idea well because it is a long day study then work on top. I did this and it broke me, literally.
oh well i shall have to see...