I recently broke up with my ex because he would be fine with me one day.. and then the next week he'd completely blank me and wouldnt even answer my texts or calls. even though we broke up, hes now come back saying he really really likes me and hes sorry for being useless... the problem is though i still love him, but i dont trust him to not do it again as ive already given him 2 chances and he's blown it. I really like someone else aswell but cant seem to let go of him. any advice?
you had given him 2 chances which is more than enough, people rarely change, If you do not like the person he is then move on, when you are lamenting about the past, remind yourself of why you chose to break up with him.
if you have doubts then dont go back to him, theres no doubt he'l do it again and again! u have already given him chances...
take a break from this relationship thing and dont rush into a new one. enjoy your singleton for a while and explain this to the new guy to give u some time. if he really likes u he will wait for you! u can just start of with mates with him etc. xx