For married/Partnered people

[EngTeach]

Do you have your own separate email account or do you each use your own? Do you think it is odd when couples share an email account? If you have separate ones, do you each have open access to the other's acct.? I ask because my friend and her husband have only ever had one account, even when they have changed providers they still created only one. I think he deletes some of emails regarding getting together or some jokes and political humor stuff b/c he probably does not agree with me. Another friend feels the same. I find this a bit controlling. Or is it just me being single I don't understand the share and share alike rule?

[legend_mark5]

Seems weird to me .
Possibly a bit controlling?

In my opinion only of course.


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[hau kola]

We have seperate addys and i also have my work addy.
Friends of ours share one though which does restrict what i send her.

[funnygirl]

I have my own addys!!

Beside Mr Funny is not at all computer literate!


He can just about master Solitaire!!!!

[Sachs]

We both have seperate email accounts. I couldn't stand having a joint one! Open access? He could read my emails if he wanted, he knows my password.

[EngTeach]

Thanks everyone.

Sometimes I wonder if my perspective is skewed not having a partner. Most couples I know, who are married, have joint bank accounts. Earning my own money for so long that scares me, but most of my friends married in their early 20's, so what money did they have? I also believe in pre-nuptual agreements as I own a home and have a good pension/retirement going. Again my married friends are appalled by this idea, but they were all just starting their careers and moved from their parents' home in w/ hubby, so there was little to protect.