my boyfriend wants to go to a topless bar

[aprysiaz]

I have been with my boyfriend for alittle over 2 years, and we're very serious. We plan on spending the rest of our lives together and having children. He doesn't have the best track record with telling the truth, and he has hid some things in the past. However, I think he has been faithful nonetheless. Last night, he asked me to go to the topless bar, and I got upset. I believe it's disrespectful. I feel like I am very respectful, and for that matter, I would never go to a place like that. What should I do?

[daniela31]

Refuse to go with him.
But let him go if he wants to. He will probably feel guilty for the whole time he is there and won't bother doing it again.
If it's just curiosity on his part as to what these places are like, then what harm is there by letting him have a look.

He will come home and tell you all about it, probably have a laugh with you about it.

:-)

[Prangy]

oh he must be cheating if he goes to a topless bar... Geeez get a grip, he probably just wants a lads night out!

[lil75]

I would say yeah that fine, but I want you to come to a male stripper night with me....bet he would be disgusted at the thought of watching men rubbing baby oil over there semi naked bodies!!! Point made!

[daniela31]

Exactly prangy. :-)
All men are curious creatures, he has probably heard his mates talking about it at work or something.
You should be honoured that he asked you to go with him!! He could have been sly about it and not told you anything....

Lighten up girl...

:-)

[Prangy]

^ You sound grumpy- Which side of the bed did you get out of? Wrong one? ;)

[daniela31]

since when have we been able to say tits on here?

[daniela31]

two out of three ain't bad......lol.

:-)

[Prangy]

You can never see enough tittage

[andy-hughes]

Raggy ... grumpy? Surely not!

the dear boy is the sole of sweetness, he just hides it well!

[pmorris1961]

Could your young man be trying to get you to relax about sex and stuff ??? is he thinking if he shows you what women can do, you might feel like being a bit more adventourous yourself ?? ( without suggesting of course that he wants you to get a job in a topless bar !!!)

[know-noknow]

aprysiaz relax you daft bint

you don't have to be topless
he won't look at the jugs i'm sure
you might find it a turn on and start going there without him ;0)

[peanut273]

its men. zoo, nut & fhm dont sell much in the shops did u know?lol! Boys will be boys!

Let him go. tell him how u feel but let him go.
Try stop him? and he'll go behind ur back & do it anyway!

Good on him for telling you though!! Shows he's not hiding things!