When on holiday me and my mates made friends with a lot of people in villas nearby. Anyway everyday there was the same families in pool and one family had two girls and a boy about 7 years old. The girls would be in bikinis and the boy in swimming trunks. Anyway halfway through the hols a boy out of the family we'd made friends with said that's not a boy it's a girl. I said 'no it cant be why would the sisters be in bikinis and she isnt' So I got him to ask him/her his/her name and he came back and said Jordan so we were non the wiser, most of the week we argued whether it was a girl or boy, then one night we thought we'd ask the Rep so we called her over and asked 'you know Jordan�' and before we could even finish she said yep she's a girl. She'd been told by her mum when she kept calling her he. I just wonder why any mother would single one daughter out and buy her boy clothes, it wasnt just swim shorts at night she would be dressed in shirt and trousers, had a boy haircut too.
well joby I'm not sure she just kept trying to get us to feed her etc like her mum didnt give a damm. And my mate accidently swore infront of her and said oops sorry and she said 'dont worry I;m used to it'
I didn't mean anything by asking you if you have kids. It's just if you did you sometimes realise that life is a hell of a lot easier if you pamper their crazy little ways and pray :-)
but I dont know whather I could, I think I could handle the trousers shirt at night but to put her in swim trunks.... If it is the mum dressing her like that then how must that girl feel when her sisters are in lovely little bikinis
I cant see anything wrong with it myself.....my eldest son (21)....still wears makeup when he's out...more eyeliner than me.....but he's relatively normal LOL... :-))
Homer: [drunk] Look, the thing about my family is there's five of us. Marge, Bart, Girl Bart, the one who doesn't talk, and the fat guy. How I loathe him.
You / we...see those little bikinis as lovely...but maybe the child doesn't. As others have said here...she is old enough to know what she wants dress-wise. If she wasn't comfortable in the trunks,she probably would be hiding away-not wanting to be seem in them. Is there any chance she was of .....ermmm...indeterminate sex???
Regarding her looking like a boy.....I was looking at some women the other day.....none had any makeup on......and I remember thinking how either androgynous(sp?) or mannish their facial features were.If most of us were put in a lineup...with no makeup and our hair covered....no one could tell WHAT we were-lol
pastafreak I did think maybe she was a Hermaphrodite. we had one in our school, who had both bits was named a girl but was really butch and when she got older she decided to have boys bits off but then came out as a lesbian... all really confusing